深思而不长思去做决定，坚持而不是盲目去执行每个决定，有机智而不是死板的达到目的

"深思而不长思去做决定，坚持而不是盲目去执行每个决定，有机智而不是死板的达到目的",
after going through down period of my life and many failures, I found out that I have a lot of weakness and bad attitudes. When during the period, I start to look into myself and try to understand my own characteristics, I hold some bad characteristics strongly while some good characteristics were not practiced by me. While chatting with my good friend today, I come out the philosophy above that can always remind me, so that I can stay alert to those bad characteristics. The characteristics contains 3 of my weakness and 3 ways to correct them. One of the Chinese idiom is 三思而后行, means that we should think carefully before making a decision, but most of the time I am making decision, I need think a lot, not only think 3 times, maybe is 30 times, 60 times or even longer. Why I use to think a lot, because I hope every decision I make is perfect, only have good effect and no any bad effect at all. But I start to asked myself, do most of the decisions have only good effect and no bad effect at all? I should think deeply in making decision, and minimize the cost and maximize the gain, and ready to pay the cost. After the decision comes out, I need to persist in it, I shouldn't 怨天尢人(complain) while facing problems, if I spend time to complain why don't I spend it to solve the problem. I should treat them as challenges of my life, try my best to overcome it, I believe that I will gain something good after those problems. Persistently to achieve a target also need a lot of braveness. And time by time I should review my decision that I made, check whether I persist in doing the achievement in wrongly way. To achieve my target, I should overcome any barrier wisely, must 足智多谋. There are many way to solving a problem, "one solution can not be used to solve many problems", it always be my reminder as I am a person that very stubborn in choosing a way to solve problems. And I found out that positive thinking is very very important when I am facing problems, negative thinking will bring me a lot of worries and make me harder to solve those problems.
And I also realize that, "afraid of failure won't make people success".