I found out that personal value (个人价值) is very important for me. When I can't find any value of my life from any field, I felt my direction of my life is lost, like 行尸走肉. Everyone also need to be accpeted and affirm of thier offer, talent and even thier existing. When my work in office is accepted or praise by boss, my value in my work will be increased, same as in many other fields. Recently I just realized it when I am the progress of building for my selfconfidents.
Selfconfident is closely related to personal value, let say, I can contribute myself into certain field, and my contribution is accepted by others, I won't feel that I am useless, then start to find out my value in that field, then after that will help myself to build up my self confident. I plan to find more sources and fields that can let me build up my personal value and self confidents, so that I will able to stand up again when one of the sources has gone. I also found out that if guy of girl only build their confident and value in relatioship, so when the lover leave them, so they will totally fall down, and hard to stand again, cause they lost their personal value that only come from the relatioship, if serious, they will commit suicide.
